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Steven Diadoo – reporting LIVE from Albino Squirrel Pond, Lakeville, MN

What a beautiful day it is in Lakeville – 70 degrees and sunny! “Monday Funday,” as my Wife has dubbed all Mondays. After work, we have plans for boating on Prior Lake with fellow Monday Funday real estate agents/good long-time friends. Which means, I better get my work done before the clock strikes 5pm.  Being self-employed requires laser focus in order to enjoy the benefits of it’s freedom and flexibility.

This morning’s post is about a new book called Success Secrets of Sales Superstars: The Moves and Mayhem Behind Selling Your Way to the Top as Told by 34 Industry Leaders. I’m sharing this one for other entrepreneurs, business owners and sales friends who enjoy new ideas to implement into their businesses and sales strategies. There’s a new book you can grab and read to get insights and stories from other industries other than your own.

“Iron sharpens iron” as the saying goes…


What Are You Really Selling?

Mark Roesler hopped in his car on a Saturday morning in the 1980s and drove to the quaint Indiana town where family members of the late film icon James Dean lived. An intellectual property rights attorney, Roesler sat down with Dean’s aunt and cousin on their farm to explain to them that they deserved rights to Dean’s image and authority over how it was used commercially. Roesler made no fuss — he didn’t make a show of being a glitzy, high-powered lawyer. He simply earned the family’s trust, which opened the door for him to represent them in a multimillion-dollar landmark case that changed the entertainment industry and made it so that corporations no longer owned sole rights to the images of celebrities they made famous.

Photo credit: Yoel/

Photo credit: Yoel/

Before matchmaker Janis Spindel introduced her client to the love of his life, she went on a date with him herself. Over dinner, she made small talk with her client, getting to know him and what he was looking for in a woman. Naturally, he wanted someone beautiful. “Men are very visual and can be extremely superficial and shallow. It’s part of their DNA,” Spindel told her client. It didn’t exactly sound like a good pitch for her services. “Don’t worry, I will find somebody that you will be attracted to. But then, there is the rest of the package.” Her honesty won her client’s heart. She introduced him to a schoolteacher — and by the end of the year, they were married.

When Phillip Styrlund, now head of consulting and sales training firm The Summit Group, landed his first sales job, he had no experience. He had been working in IT for a telecommunications company, but when the firm was about to lose one of its biggest clients, Styrlund’s boss told him he would be in charge of mending the client relationship. He’d never done anything like that before. So on the first day of his new role, he decided to be as transparent with the customer as possible. “I’m brand-new,” Styrlund said. “I’ve never been in sales. Guys, tell me what to do. How should we go about mending this relationship? What needs to happen?” His admission could have put the client off. But instead, it encouraged them to truly alongside him to repair the relationship. In two months, Styrlund and his client checked off a laundry list of grievances that had been resolved, and the customer was happy to stay.

No matter who you are or what you’re selling, everyone uses this main tactic to close a deal: make the customer believe in you — and then they can believe in your product. That’s the overarching theme in a collection of personal short stories from entrepreneurs of all business types captured in Success Secrets of Sales Superstars: The Moves and Mayhem Behind Selling Your Way to the Top as Told by 34 Industry Leaders. Authors Robert L. Shook and Barry Farber tapped leaders in a wide array of industries — including real estate — to talk about some of the most challenging and memorable moments of landing a tough sale.

Farber has written for REALTOR® Magazine before on the “4 Ways to a More Honest Sales Relationship.” Chief among his tips is to focus on connecting to something that’s important to your client instead of trying to make the client connect to what you’re selling. If you can win their loyalty by connecting with them on a personal level, clients will buy into your sales pitch. In Success Secrets of Sales Stars, it’s clear that’s a near-universal philosophy, as sports agents, financial advisors, CEOs, auto salespeople, and real estate professionals alike write about how this practice helped them win the sales that made their careers.

We all need a little inspiration from outside our own circles to learn how we can do what we do even better. If you want to see how the successes of salespeople in completely different industries can apply to your real estate business, this book is a good place to start.

Source: Book Scan

Copyright NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS®. Reprinted with permission.

This Article Appears Courtesy of Steven Diadoo

Steven Diadoo, Licensed Realtor in MN with BRIDGE REALTY and best-selling author of 'Road to Success' with Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul), Board Member at Bowling for Brains Non-Profit 501(c)3 (Event to benefit the American Brain Tumor Association), licensed Realtor with Bridge Realty, Seen on DIY TV, Create Channel and PBS. For help buying and/or selling a house, please call (952) 270-6141 or Click here.